Groom's Family Flowers: What They Are, Who Picks Them, and How to Get It Right

When we talk about groom's family flowers, the floral arrangements assigned to the groom’s close relatives at a wedding. Also known as groom’s side flowers, they’re not just decoration — they’re a quiet signal of inclusion, respect, and tradition. These aren’t the big bouquets or centerpieces. They’re the smaller, thoughtful touches: a boutonniere for the groom’s dad, a small corsage for his mom, maybe a wrist flower for a grandmother or aunt. It’s about honoring those who raised him, not just the bride’s side.

Many couples assume the bride’s family handles all the flowers. But that’s outdated. In modern weddings, floral budgets, the total amount set aside for all wedding flowers are often split, and groom’s boutonniere, the small flower worn by the groom and male family members is just as important as the bride’s bouquet. It’s not about matching — it’s about meaning. A dad wearing a flower that matches the groom’s suit, a grandma’s corsage in her favorite color, a brother’s pin that echoes the wedding palette — these details tell a story. And in Bristol, where weddings are personal and local florists know the neighborhood trends, these choices matter more than ever.

So who decides? Usually, the groom and his family. Sometimes the bride helps. But it’s not the bride’s parents’ job to pick them unless agreed. If you’re the groom, don’t wait until the week before. Florists in Bristol get booked fast. Talk to your florist early — show them photos of your suit, your family’s style, even your dad’s usual tie color. A simple navy boutonniere with a single white rose and eucalyptus? That’s a classic. A red carnation for a dad who loves old-school charm? Perfect. And if you’ve got elderly relatives who might not wear a pin, a wrist corsage is easier and just as lovely.

And here’s something most people miss: wedding floral arrangements, the overall floral design elements used in a wedding ceremony and reception don’t need to be symmetrical. The bride’s side gets the big bouquets. The groom’s side gets the quiet elegance. That’s okay. In fact, it’s better. It keeps the focus where it should be — on the couple — while still giving everyone their moment. You don’t need ten flowers for ten uncles. Just the close ones. Parents, grandparents, sometimes step-parents. That’s it. Less is more, and it’s cheaper.

Look at the posts below. You’ll see how much people care about cost, timing, and what’s actually needed. One couple saved hundreds by skipping the groom’s side flowers entirely — and no one noticed. Another made their dad cry by putting in his late mother’s favorite bloom. There’s no rulebook. Just what feels right. Whether you’re going simple, sentimental, or stylish, the right flowers for the groom’s family don’t shout. They whisper. And that’s what makes them unforgettable.